Why do women always play first violin

Ask any man who should take the first step in a courtship ritual, and he will answer that this role belongs to men. However, all studies suggest otherwise. Women are the initiators of flirting in 90% of cases. They do this with the help of subtle body language signals sent to the men who are interested in them, and they hope that the men will be sensitive enough to recognize them. Of course, there are men who approach women in bars and clubs, not waiting for the "green light", but despite the fact that some of them manage to find partners, general statistics show that the percentage of success is very, very low. Such men are not invited, they just play for good luck.

In the process of courtship, the first violin is usually played by a woman. A man has to dance to her music.

If a man discovers that his advances have remained unanswered, he pretends that he wants to talk on abstract topics: “You are working for the National Bank, aren't you?”, “Are you not related to John Smith?” In order to succeed in ritual courtship on such conditions, a man has to turn to a multitude of women before someone responds to his call, if, of course, he does not have the appearance of Brad Pitt. Any man who crosses a room to talk to a woman usually does this by catching body language signals she sends. It seems to him that it is he who takes the first step, because it is he who goes to her, and not vice versa. But the initiators of 90% of cases of courtship were women. They did it so subtly that it seemed to men that the initiative came entirely from them.