“Well, I suppose, the question of who appeared earlier is already resolved!” Smoking is an outward manifestation of anxiety or conflict. Most smokers do not smoke because they can not do without nicotine, but simply because they feel the need for encouragement and support. Smoking is a typical substitution action used in a modern stressful society. Cigarettes help relieve the tension that accumulates in a person’s personal and professional life. For example, most people feel very uncomfortable in the dentist’s reception, especially if they have to extract a tooth. The smoker hides his anxiety with a cigarette. The rest use other rituals for the same purpose - they begin to comb, chew gum, bite their nails, drum their fingers on the table, beat off the rhythm of their feet, pull at cufflinks, scratch their heads, touch rosaries, etc. All these actions give off nervousness and anxiety. Jewelry is often used to disguise insecurity. They can be pulled or twisted in the fingers, hiding behind such actions fear, insecurity, impatience and anxiety.
Studies show a close relationship between breastfeeding and smoking habits. It was found that babies who were bottle-fed, that is, accustomed to the bottle, as adults, began to smoke more likely than those who were breastfed. The longer a baby is breastfed, the less likely it is that he will start smoking. Such children received comfort and comfort from the mother’s breast, and not from sucking an inanimate bottle. In adulthood, those who used to suck in a bottle, finger or blanket as a child replace these items with a cigarette.
| Artificially fed babies begin to smoke three times more often in adulthood than those who are breastfed.
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Artificial feeding leads to the fact that the child begins to suck a finger or a blanket, in adult life begins to smoke. In addition, people who have been artificially fed become much more likely to become neurotic and experience oral fixation - they suck on their glasses, bite their fingernails or the tip of their hands, bite their lips and bite their pencils with such frenzy that beavers might envy them.
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Body language
Terms: Body language