Rubbing the neck and slaps

Speaking of the fact that someone is your “headache,” you mention a completely natural reaction of certain small muscles of the upper neck. These muscles could put wool on your nape, if you had one. And then you would look more impressive in moments of threat or anger. The angry dog ​​behaves in the same way when it encounters a potential adversary. In moments of fear or depression, a person experiences a tingling in the neck and starts rubbing the back of his head and neck with his palm to get rid of the unpleasant feeling.
Rubbing the neck
Let's assume that you asked a person to give you a little service, and he forgot about it. When you ask him about the result, he will almost certainly slap himself on the forehead or the back of the head, as if punishing himself symbolically. Although a slap on the head is usually a signal of forgetfulness, it is very important to pay attention to whether the person slaps his forehead or the back of his head. Slapping his forehead, the interlocutor shows that your mention of his forgetfulness does not frighten him. Slapping his neck in order to calm the muscles, unconsciously raising the fur on the back of his neck, the person says that your mention is in the literal sense of the word “headache”. But if a man slaps himself below the waist ...
Gerard Nirenberg of the New York Institute of Negotiations found that people who often slap their neck and neck are usually negative and critical. Those who, admitting a mistake, slap themselves on the forehead, are more open and sociable.
Man symbolically punishes himself for forgetfulness.
In order to learn to correctly interpret the value of the hands held to your face, you will need time and observation. If a person uses any of the gestures that we talked about in this section, it can be assumed that he is negative. However, the question arises, what is it negative about? Maybe he is in doubt, not sure, wants to deceive, exaggerates, fears or lies openly. The ability to correctly determine the nature of human behavior is a true art. To do this, you will have to analyze the gestures that precede the offering of a hand to the face, and then interpret the whole chain.