The six rules of a successful marriage

1. Similar attracts. You will always be happy and more compatible with a person whose interests, tastes and values ​​are like yours. At the same time, you are more attractive to a person whose attitudes and beliefs are in harmony with yours. The most important areas of marriage for which partners should have similar ideas: money - how much to have money, how to earn and spend it; children - to have or not, how much and how to raise them; attitude to sex; religion; attitude to political and social phenomena. Important indicators of compatibility are also attitudes towards people, social activities, and rest.
2. The second rule for achieving success in relationships is that opposites attract, but only in temperament. Nature always requires balance and harmony. In a relationship in which you are compatible with another person in temperament, the beginning and flow of communication will be easy. This balance is very important. Each person has a certain amount of need for conversations, such that he feels healthy. If one person feels the need to speak 70% of the time, and only 20% listen, and the other one experiences 70% speak, a collision will occur.
3. Total devotion to the other by each of the two. Total dedication requires sincere determination to make relationships successful. Total loyalty means that no one side will ever even consider or discuss the possibility of alienation from the other, breaking off relations.
4. Sincerely admire your companion. When for some reason one person stops admiring or respecting others, the relationship usually ends. Never say: "and you ...", "and I ..."
5. Similar concepts attract. You will always be attractive and most compatible with the person who is as happy and positive as you. Interestingly, people with negative concepts are attracted to each other, like people with positive ones. It is said: "birds with the same plumage come together in flocks"
6. Good communication. In order to build and maintain a high level of communication quality in relationships, you need both a large quantity and a high quality of time that is continuously spent with each other.