Psychology of women's reproach

What are the reproaches? Direct reproach, when a woman directly in the eyes accuses a man of being bad, financially untenable, and so on. Often reproach can detract from sexual dignity: "You - not a man." For many, such a reproach causes severe stress, deep feelings, and self-doubt. Such a phrase hurts especially, causing a man to feel guilty.
Another type of reproach is comparative. Comparative reproach, one of the most difficult for men. He can be very cunning and evil. The woman says: “You know, Pyotr Ivanovich bought his fur coat for his wife”. Such a reproach “includes” a third person and gives a comparison not in favor of the husband. It is in order for him to use a man to suffer, so that he knows what is worse and what loses in comparison with other people. Responding to the reproaches should be as the wife does not expect. And she expects excuses. Wrong answer: “But I bought a coffee pot last year, brought it to the resort” or “Do you remember how little I earn.” The correct answer is: “I am very happy for his wife. Peter Ivanovich is a very nice man, I know him well, he earns well. Well done that I bought my wife a fur coat. Now many are doing it. "
The consequences of the reproaches can be very sad. Sometimes the reproach is frankly unjust, it is sewn with white threads, but the man is inclined to believe him, to take it at face value, which leads to neurosis, a breakdown of the nervous system. To the reproach of the type: “You are not a man” - some people experience it long and deeply. Therefore, if a woman makes such a reproach, you will agree. Do not make excuses. “Of course I am not a man. How did you guess? I don't even have anything in common. ” So she will be at a dead end. And if the bewildered wife asks: "Who are you then." "I am a frog." To a stupid question - a stupid answer. This is one of the ways to combat aggression - to respond with stupidity.