Love

It is unlikely that any other word is used in such a variety of combinations. And hardly any other word causes so much misunderstanding.
By love, most people understand the strong feeling that penetrates to the depths of the soul. If someone excites such a feeling, it means that it excites love. At the same time, joy, euphoria, excitement, but also pain, disappointment, sadness and suffering are excited.
This has nothing to do with true love, but rather corresponds to the state of so-called love. And this is a wonderful feeling, but it should not be confused with love. True love can only be described very roughly, it needs to be experienced. The one who loves knows what love is.
We all want to be loved - best of all, to be loved. Alienation because it hurts so much that it is a sign that they do not like us. But here, too, we note the outward signs of what is actually in us. We strive to love ourselves. If we fail to love ourselves, we expect love from others. Alienation from people is a reflection of the lack of their own love for themselves. Behind everything is the need to love ourselves, to accept ourselves as we are.
Because we need another person, we want to change him, and this other person can make us happy or make us unhappy - as far as we really don't love. All this helps the continuous development of our ability to love and thus is good in itself. But with true love, it has little to do. As long as we still want to change something in our love or while love itself changes, until then it is not love yet. Because love is truth and has no habit of changing. In the meantime, we remain on her eve. Love is simple.
There is no need for her to learn, neither we nor our neighbor, we just need to let it happen. Love must come true, just flow. Love can not learn and can not unlearn how to love. There are delays and hindrances that must be overcome in order for love to be realized in a person and acquire a vital manifestation. We are love and love, when we really are ourselves. But since we are busy playing roles, we live in obedience to ideas and habits, do not correspond to our own true being, we cannot truly love. We can try very hard to want to learn love, we can repeat, looking in the mirror: “I love myself,” but nothing will help unless there is authenticity.
But if we truly remain ourselves, we love. We do not have to repeat it, learn it, do not need to worry about it. Love will happen simply because it is our true essence, which seeks to express itself everywhere and always.
Our thirst for happiness is nothing but a thirst for love. When we love, we are happy, and since our true self is love, it means that our mission is to be happy. We do not need anything external to be able to love and be happy. We are not dependent on any conditions whatsoever, on the right choice of a partner, we only need to liberate ourselves, to remove the hindrances of love.
That is why partnership is an unsurpassed school. Our desire to fill the partnership gives us the courage and strength to consider the problems presented and to start solving them. Partnership teaches us tolerance, responsibility and honesty. It leads us to independence and to the knowledge of inseparability. It shows us who we are and helps us realize our true identity.
Love is the highest goal. When we love, our thirst is quenched: we are truly happy.