Our sex is boring

At the beginning of the partnership, such problems do not seem to arise. Mutual inspiration and novelty cause everything except boredom. But the habit quickly arises. In bed, always the same thing happens, the desire to revive the relationship. It seems to some that this is the way it should be, others change their partner, considering the former unsuitable.
What is behind this?
Human relations imply constant growth, self-alteration and approaching each other. This also applies to sexuality. As soon as the love phase passes, the quality of sexuality changes. If we do not change, sooner or later the habit arises, and with it boredom. The fear of alienation and confrontation keeps many from confessing their desires to a partner. A possible quarrel or disagreement will harm the relationship. This risk is difficult to take. It is better to put on a win-win number, reconcile with a compromise than to cause conflict with unpredictable consequences. And two people live together, overwhelmed, perhaps, by one desire, not daring to express it. Sorry, they might be happy. Although the awareness and openness in this area has increased significantly, many still consider their desires not entirely normal and are embarrassed to express them. Behind all this lies the fear of alienation.
What to do?
If we want your partnership to be complete, we are required to be completely relaxed, willing to change, to overcome difficulties and to uphold our feelings. If we do not go for it, nothing will change. Relationships, particularly sexual ones, will be bored. Talk to your partner about your unmet desires - even if it threatened conflict. There is no guarantee that your partnership will last forever. On the contrary, you already know that you will part sometime. The only thing that can guarantee life is the lack of guarantees. Defend your desires, they are in the order of things, live a full life.