Adultery

Adultery has only a sexual background and is the result of the “call of the flesh”, infidelity is much more dangerous, which is already connected with the spiritual sphere of the spouse who turned “left”. It is the second most often leads to divorce. It is not for nothing that in our time divorce proceedings are based on the conclusions of psychologists, who find out that in a particular case there is a place - infidelity or treason and is there a chance to save the “cell of society”. The specialist conducts a “psychological inventory” of the couple, determining which spiritual threads bind her (and if at all), and makes her verdict: either a divorce is unavoidable, or there is still hope to improve the situation using psychotherapeutic methods.
Infidelity is less sinful than treason. If a person truly loves not the spouse, but the other, then he does not change, but in fact lives a second life.
We distinguish several types of men and women who have a tendency to have extramarital affairs.
"Don Juan". This is where the “narcissus” is buried: he wants to please everyone and, changing, admires his own attractiveness.
“Libertine”, or “catcher of women”. He proves his manliness with new and new sex victories, so he feels the need for change and diversity.
“Forever unsatisfied”. Constantly looking for love, but with any woman has no permanent emotional connections.
"Collector". This is already a psychopathological libertine: he breaks loose, cannot stop, because he is ill.
The survey showed that 71 percent of men think that the best wife is a stranger.
Women have the following types.
"Temptress". Wants to love and seeks to have fans, for which he uses sex. Although the need for sexual relations she is small.
“Adventure lover”. Looking for sexual experiences that in her family life is not enough. I have no feelings for partners with whom I have short-term sex contacts.
"Defenseless." Lovely nature, not able to refuse to men, whose passion immediately causes in her a reciprocal feeling. Therefore, with resignation is given.
“Unsatisfied.” Can not find satisfaction in anything: neither husband, nor work, nor friends. In love affairs, she often feels guilty and quickly becomes unbearable.
It is not at all necessary that women are frigid or, on the contrary, overly sexy, are prone to treason. Most likely, it is infantile, not self-confident person, too listening to the opinions of friends.
Men are usually confident in their irresistible, so often they do not admit that their half can change them. Although women are much more real to their spouses: which man will refuse to go out? And 9 percent of women with great accuracy can determine the day when the husband went “on the side” (by external signs, increased attention and gifts given). In principle, women have already learned to put up with unfaithful spouses, and 21 percent of women are concerned with only one thing - they would not have brought any infection to the house.
Many women close their eyes to the adventures of their “faithful” due to material dependence on them, unwillingness to leave children without fathers and other reasons. To keep pain in oneself is to make the strongest neurosis. Although the first (or next) exposure is not worth chopping off the shoulder. Treason is a disease, and men recover from an exacerbation rather quickly.
The weaker sex is harder: the disease goes on longer and deeper. A woman withdrew from one pole, but did not attach to the other, and even the insult was gnawing from the consumer’s attitude towards her. The result is a prolonged depression.
Although it happens that the betrayal of a wife can be useful for her husband, since it is not the infantile and not frigid that returns to him, but a woman who is more interesting in all respects. So you can rival and “shake hands” and not attribute the attractiveness of the wife to his merits. In our opinion, in 50 percent of cases, a woman is revealed through treason, which leads to harmony in family life.
If, by changing, a woman can develop, then a man most often degrades, because his body works mainly, not his soul.
Happens, and husbands enjoy when they pay attention to their wives. “Many men like her, but she is mine and only mine!” They think with delight (otherwise: if others do not need you, then why do I need them?). They say that: to arouse the interest of her own husband again, you need to be with him in public and arouse the delight of other men. It is not without reason that health, a car and a woman are considered attributes of success among Western men.