Human relations

At first glance, human relationships are a way to communicate with other people. If you are optimistic and wait for joyful meetings, your positive attitude, positive outlook on things is passed on to others.

And people respond to you with friendliness and attention. If, on the contrary, you are pessimistic, expect the worst, others, perceiving your negative attitude, a negative view of things, start to avoid you. If something like this happened to you, try to realize what you are primarily paying attention to, which is the focus of your inner vision. You tune your brain to what attracts you, just as you point the camera at an object that you want to capture.

Any situation can be considered as a failure, and as a step towards future success. Sometimes a cold winter day is just beautiful, and it happens that it makes me sad. A working meeting for someone is an interesting event, but for others it is a mortal boredom. The comment can be taken easily, and can lead to a stroke. The proposal of a colleague is found either as a long-awaited help, or as an unfair criticism. It's very simple: you are doing exactly those "pictures" of life that you want to have.

In most cases, when we use the words “mood” and “attitude,” probably, it would be better to simply say: “He sees everything in a black light,” - or: - “It would be better for her to look at the world with open eyes.” The more we connect the mood with the process of visual perception, with how we look at the world, the better for us. For thirty years of work, I have not found a better definition than: “The mood is how we look at the world,” although it may not sound scientifically enough.