Young people need space, old people need time. And indeed, young people want to turn around, to declare themselves; show yourself - see others. They are more curious. They want to learn something new. But life experience is not enough for them. In the case of the young, a joke is more likely to work. True humor is a delicate matter, it does not reach everyone. More precisely, different humor to different people comes in different ways. And this is usually connected with the cultural level. Well, it is necessary to take this into account.
With regard to the induction of damage you can say the following. Scaring and bullying in young people is good. Lack of life experience. For the same reason, the wish of harm is worse. But it is easy to make fun of the young, make a mockery (often some teachers do this). The consequences can be extremely negative. It has long been observed that it is much more difficult for a young person to suffer an offense than an adult person.
Mature The concept is certainly relative: youth is not age, but a state of mind. In this case, we do not mean this state, but the person’s life experience, which appears in 30–40 years. What is characteristic of this age?
“Few people create anything creative after 35 years of age. The reason for this is that very few people create anything creative before the age of 35 ”. These words of Joel Hildebrand perfectly characterize the inner mental state of the majority of people of this age. Indeed, it seems that life is passing; that so much has already passed, but really did not have time, achieved nothing (even if it did). And so the most difficult adolescence is between thirty and forty.
How to use it when building damage? Elementary. Since the quotes went: “Any bus passenger over thirty is a loser.” This is said Lelia, Duchess of Westminster. She herself obviously in the buses never went. Nevertheless, it is enough to hint to a person that he is not able to do anything, has not achieved anything, that he has lived in vain for so many years ... And if you did it skillfully - depression is guaranteed. This, by the way, works well on both men and women. The main thing is to find what to cling to.
Old men. By the way, old age is also not an age, but a state of mind. No wonder the Italians say: "Old men must be killed in childhood." At the same time, they mean those who are always dissatisfied with everything, who does not live and does not give to others. Therefore, to SPEAK: we are talking not so much about older people, but about those who, despite life experience, understand one thing - the grave is ahead, and with it there must be dragged as many other people as possible. Therefore, it is possible and agree with the Italians.
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Developmental Psychology and Developmental Psychology
Terms: Developmental Psychology and Developmental Psychology